While on the one hand, both ourselves and our worlds are constantly in change and flux, the speed that these work at, varies. The seconds change immediately, the years slower. If we do not take time to examine where we are at, then we are dominated by change, But the great secret is that we can have a certain amount of control over how these changes affect us. Retirement is a huge change. Our routine, status, income, financial security and purpose are thrown up in the air. Us